[JDBC] Close parameter VectorSchemaRoot if setRowCount or setParameters fails in AvaticaParameterBinder #1458

Follow-up to #1441 (#1439).

In AvaticaParameterBinder.bind(List<TypedValue>, int), the try block that closes parameters on failure before hand-off currently only wraps the per-parameter bind loop:

• parameters.setRowCount(index + 1) calls setValueCount on each vector, which can still allocate buffers (for example, child vector buffers of a FixedSizeListVector when null was bound) and throw OutOfMemoryException.
• preparedStatement.setParameters(parameters) can also throw a RuntimeException before parametersHandedOff is set to true.
• The initial parameter count check throws IllegalStateException before parameters is handed off.

Expanding the try block to cover the full bind method up to parametersHandedOff = true ensures parameters is always closed on any RuntimeException before ownership is transferred to the statement.